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Courtesy photo Banner as it stands along NM-522 in Questa, N.M., on Tuesday, Feb. 24, 2026

OP ED: Our Concerns About the Sign in Front of the Catholic Diocese

By CONCERNED COMMUNITY MEMBERS


A new sign placed on the Catholic diocesan property reads, “God’s Marriage = One Man + One Woman.” While this message reflects the beliefs of those who installed it, many residents feel it is important to clarify that it does not represent the shared values of our broader community.


Our village is a place of diversity and kindness, and we are known for the way we support one another. Our neighbors include people of many identities, beliefs, and family structures—including LGBTQ+ individuals and families who strengthen our community as teachers, business owners, volunteers, first responders, and friends. We value a community where everyone can feel at home, free from judgment and exclusion.


Although the sign stands on private property and is a protected expression, its public message has caused hurt for some residents and gives visitors an inaccurate impression of who we are. This campaign, introduced by recently arrived church leadership, does not reflect the welcoming spirit our community has long embraced.


We also want to clarify that the message on this sign originates from an outside organization, the American Society for the Defense of Tradition, Family and Property (often called TFP). This national group promotes its own campaigns and viewpoints on social issues and is not an official arm of the Catholic Church. Many local Catholic residents may not be familiar with this organization, as its name appears in very small print on the sign and is easy to overlook. It is important to recognize that the Catholic community in our area is broad, diverse, and rooted in long-standing relationships here. The viewpoints promoted by TFP should not be assumed to represent the beliefs of all Catholics in our village, or the welcoming spirit shared by so many of our neighbors of faith.


We recognize that some community members may agree with the viewpoint expressed on the sign. To those neighbors, we want to say this with sincerity: our community has always been strongest when we remain united. In a small, rural place like ours, looking out for one another and ensuring safety, dignity, and a true sense of home for each person is essential. Even when we hold different beliefs, we can still choose respect, compassion, and care for our neighbors.


This statement is offered to provide balance and clarity. The sign represents one viewpoint—not a community consensus. Many of us stand with our LGBTQ+ neighbors, family members, and friends, and we reaffirm our shared commitment to respect, dignity, and belonging for all who live here.


Signed,
Gaea McGahee, Claire Coté, Maggie Gonzales, Becky Reardon, Jeannie Masters, Jake Lafore, Jolten Lafore and Concerned Community Members